The process is likely going to take over 2 years with minimal updates along the way. You’re going to have to get used to being patient. Would suggest looking at other posting about their time frames to get a general idea of her to expect. Unless there is significant differences in processing lengths between your case and most others all you can do is wait and expect some processing time variability. I would limit yourself in terms of how many times you log into your file. For example once a week because there will be many months where nothing will change.