We met online... is it required to put that material in?

[CountryGurl_GMC]

We are getting ready to submit my husbands permanent residency.

He is american - we have a 9 month old son together.

Question - we met on 'the chive' if anyone knows what that is. I was a 'gallery' girl and photos of me were featured (not nude but sexy photos). I have screen shots of some of our first interactions some of them include sexy photos and some of them don't.

My gut tells me NOT to include the sexy ones - however if I include the PG ones is a CIC officer going to start searching through the rest of the forum looking at other places where we interacted and come across the sexy photos and interactions?

I might be paranoid but I need to get this right and get my family back together - his visitor visa expired and they wouldn't let us renew so now we have to do out of country.

Thank you in advance.

 

[Ukrainian girl]

We are getting ready to submit my husbands permanent residency.

He is american - we have a 9 month old son together.

Question - we met on 'the chive' if anyone knows what that is. I was a 'gallery' girl and photos of me were featured (not nude but sexy photos). I have screen shots of some of our first interactions some of them include sexy photos and some of them don't.

My gut tells me NOT to include the sexy ones - however if I include the PG ones is a CIC officer going to start searching through the rest of the forum looking at other places where we interacted and come across the sexy photos and interactions?

I might be paranoid but I need to get this right and get my family back together - his visitor visa expired and they wouldn't let us renew so now we have to do out of country.

Thank you in advance.

Hi,
In my opinion it would be better to just include the “normal” ones and leave the sexy ones out. It wouldn’t give you any benefits including the PG ones but at the same time you never know what officer is going to be looking at your application and their background and personal opinion etc so why to risk it especially if your gut feeling is telling you not to do it.

 

[AlbaNuadh]

Hi Country Gurl,
I can't say for certain but my husband and I met online. I applied for a visa to the UK shortly after meeting (so not a lot of history of actually being together) and as far as I could tell no one went searching on the forum we met on. They were more interested in the fact we were in contact and how often that contact was.
I am applying for a visa for my husband for Canada now and have barely mentioned our meeting because we have lived together and have a child.
I think you would be find to include what you are comfortable including because what will matter most is the fact you have been trying to build a life together.
FWIW, I don't think it would work against you even if they did come across the other photos and interactions.