hello everyone.
my husband had an interview on feb19. i wanted to share with everyone our experience. The consoul was rude and unfriendly from the begining. She asked him why my parents werent at the wedding and when he replied that they had financial difficulties, she replied that he is lying and she knows how much people doing their job making money. My dad is a track driver, he is self employed and has own company registered at his home address. First she asked my husband where my dads office located he sad home address, on which again she replied that this is not possible. She asked him what exactly im doing at my 2nd part time job, he sad that he doesnt know the details as it is not my main job and he just know that i work there for several years, he could explain though in details what my 1st job is and what im doing. She told him that he doesnt know nothing about his wife. Moreove, she was asking what his job is and he sad he is self employed (job related to car dealership), she didnt want to listen nothing about it but she wanted to see papers that proves his job. He told her that not in the application requirement nor in interview letter states that he should bring docs from his work or bank account, she sad that he should know that and bring it.
She wouldnt let him speak, she would ask a question and will give answer that she thinks is right. many times she told him on interview to stop lying. Mind you, all the info is truthfull, i wouldnt even share with everyone if we gave false info and she was right.
At the end she told him that she doesnt believe our marriage is genuine therefore she refusing his application. She knew that most of the time im spending with him here in europe and during the interview i was there too waiting.
I dont mean to scare noone who will have an interview, i just wanted to share it with others. We didnt expect this kind of treatment at all. I think noone has the right to talk to other people like that. Of course we will apeal but now i have one more goal, one day i want to hear a formal excuse from that consoul even if it will take years.