AnaMaria said:
I re-read your original post. I think you want to immigrate to somewhere through marriage. Your application will mostly likely denied in those countries you mentioned. You have not met this person and get married in a hurry without family approval. From the eyes of immigration officers, your case will look like convenience of marriage in order to immigrate to the country. I am not saying it is your intent. You will have to develop your relationship and make it strong enough to convince the officers that your relationship is genuine and real. First step to do that is to meet him in person. I think steaky suggested to meet him in Vietnam. You and he might be able to visit Vietnam relatively easy. But have him visit you in India is probably better. Convince your family. Without family involvement in your relationship, it is very difficult to get your application approved, particularly you are from India, where family tradition is a must to have in the application. Marriage is not guaranteed to immigration.
Don't rush. Take a step at a time.
Thanks AnaMaria for your response. However you've re-read my original post the exact opposite of what I was saying. No problem.
What I really want is to be able to go to Canada which is the closest I can think of near USA so I am able to spend some time with my guy. He is an American. I intend on marriage only later, probably a year or so. I've had shit goin on all my life here and that makes me a cautious person. Although my family may not approve now as I have to meet the person in the first place to be able to convince them, they will eventually.
The reason why I can't have him come to India is, He has an established business in USA and it will be hard for him to abandon that and be here for us to spend time into our relationship. Also not worth it as he is not allowed to live with me in my house, for obvious reasons as I am Indian and traditions, culture etc etc,... !! He is gonna land up living in a separate apt or hotel and unnecessary expense. Plus it can't go on for any further than a week!
So it is better I went where he is as I can work and also get to spend time with him more than I would be able to in India.
I just need a fool proof way to get to Canada, find myself a job somehow (magic? luck? skills? whatever works) and then decide on marriage. This was the same intent when I applied for USA too. I had taken admission at school and applied for F1. But was refused.
I mentioned going to Australia or NZ as its easier to get Travel visa there and a job too. All I am clueless about is the time frame one receives PR in these countries? Please let me know if you know anything.
Thanks so much.