The relief part is likely quite normal, after waiting in suspense for so long. The happiness will follow, once you're finished with the Landing process. My spouse and I have been a couple for five years, but have had to live apart and wait until she can retire and claim full Social Security benefits, instead of losing 25% income for the rest of her life. First check just received! She also has Medicare, and can get care just across the line in Bellingham. So she will NEVER be a burden to Canadian taxpayers. It's been a long, arduous, and VERY expensive process for us. Wish the AirMiles we've racked up could actually be useful for something! Cheers, Linda