URGENT HELP - Spousal sponsorship withdrawal on Permanent Res. processing stage

[Cedrich]

Good morning ,
Can I still withdraw my spousal sponsorship to my husband in the philippines?My spouse and I are having serious maritial issues and I no longer wish to support his application to become a permanent resident of Canada. He is on Medical stage of his application. Please advise what is the best thing to do and do I need to explain the reason of my withdrawal?
Thank you so much

 

[mikeymyke]

Yes you can withdraw easily. Just notify CIC

1-888-242‑2100

You have to wait until Monday to call. You don't need any detailed explanations, just tell them you want to withdraw. Also, on a personal note, if you threaten to remove him from the PR application and he tries to woo you back, do not give in. Just stay the course and keep him away from your life. Some people who, in the face of not getting PR, will say and do anything.

 

[Cedrich]

thanks MIke ,

I sent an email earlier to Embassy to withdraw my application. Although visa processing fee and PR Res. fee was being paid since 2013. I dont want him to continue his medical process because i don"t want him to come here anymore. So stressful part but I need to decide. I sponsored him 2013 and we have lots of trouble.

 

[mikeymyke]

Yes that's a good move you're doing. Some people start to change when their PR card is about to arrive soon. That once loving husband suddenly becomes so distant.

Best of luck to you.

 

[gsize]

too many people give up too easily ! Guess that's why divorce rate is over 50 % in North America

Try to work it out. Relationships are not easy especially when going through immigration.

 

[Cedrich]

but it's hard to continue a relationship with so many problems arises especially long distance. I know it is a tough decision but I need to follow my mind not my heart. It is good to save a sinking relationship but I tried it so many times but still didn't work.

 

[rhcohen2014]

too many people give up too easily ! Guess that's why divorce rate is over 50 % in North America

Try to work it out. Relationships are not easy especially when going through immigration.

even still, this doesn't mean the OP still needs to sponsor this person as a pr and take on all that responsibility. if the relationship is meant to work out, it will regardless of whether there is an application in process. also, if this person wants to come to canada to be with the OP, then they would find alternate routes for immigration, and not just depend on her to do it for him. This will be the true test of the relationship... if he continues to be difficult because she changes her mind about sponsorship, then perhaps this person doesn't need to come to canada and the OP can move on in a positive way. if he's willing to do the work on his own, then perhaps there's a chance it's a genuine and healthy relationship that can work out once the stress of immigration is no longer a factor.