That'd be me. I really don't know what to do about the work situation. Still nothing yet.
My wife has an excellent government job in Orillia which we live 5 minutes away from. Whatever happens, she's not leaving that job as it would be incredibly difficult for her to get anything that pays close to what she earns now, plus she gets amazing benefits.
We could move to Barrie perhaps which is kind of mid way between Orillia and Toronto (a little closer to Orillia than Toronto I think), that way I could commute by car, although it would still be a very sucky drive. The Go train wouldn't be an option as the last train is very early and a programming job is prone to lots of overtime.
The problem is that even if we could afford to move to the Barrie area and my wife was willing to, she's still very ill. Moving just isn't an option.
So right now I'm still hopelessly hunting around for minimum wage jobs just hoping to get a foot in the door. I can't afford a car so I'm stuck at looking for jobs in the immediate area. Having no customer service experience really limits my opportunities. I tried a job agency but they're being snooty with me and aren't helping at all.
The situation is a little scary actually as the wife's running out of sick time very quickly and her long term disability stuff isn't going to be processed for a few months probably, leaving us in a great big financial hole. If I don't find something soon I really don't know what we'll do!
Sorry for the life story there, I needed to vent a little