I really feel your frustration, if it helps, you are not alone (even though it may feel like it).
Majority of people applying are in a genuine relationship however it is the few who make life more difficult for the masses, hence the more regid and time consuming checks. You are applying the fastest route, those in the routes you mention wait far longer and are often at a higher risk of being denied and some couples wait up to 5 years to be together, so 10 months isn't long.
You are also within normal processing times (althought I am sure that is not what you want to hear right now) there are other people in Oct who are also waiting like DGT. I am sure (unless there are questions about your information provided or you are Non Visa Exempt) that you will hear soon. In fact I am betting you will get a DM before me and I applied in August.
I do sympathise, I am living in another country to my husband and my daughter is living without a father right now and my step son has been admitted to hospital in Canda having seizures and I can't be there to comfort my husband. I will pray for your application to be processed quickly tonight and hope that my angels will hear me and whisper a little nudge in your VO's ear!
SM ;
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thank you Sm,
It make me cry I know people are in same situation as i am there are ups and down i feel so bad for you that you cant even be with your son who is ill right nowi understand that though the feeling is different cause im not the one undergoing it.My husband is visa exempt but i dont know how cic works its all pile of file on their table when i applied for my spouse visa for uk i received it in 2 weeks though a paid an expensive rate but i would not have mind if we had that option at least you get a decision faster with this method by the time they open your file something is missing you are still in dark not knowing what is happening ,on top of that you still have to wait if there are missing documents...thanks though for your encouraging words,god bless you,hope we all get a fast decision soon