Stumpedmom said:
No he can't bring everything up...We are in the same boat, that we can make it for the next few months for processing times. The awful part is...bringing all his stuff, mind you he does not have too much...so we can fit it in his car...maybe just maybe Jayde that withing that 2 months we will atleast be in process or have that PPR for us both!!!
Oh I sure hope so! I'm crossing my fingers for you too!! I just don't want to wait anymore.. .I know it's relatively short if you look at our timeline, but we waited quite a while before applying because we kept having roadblocks that would have thrown up red flags in the process, i.e. I was on temporary disability but close to being able to work so I knew there was a transition point where I'd be receiving assistance but not "technically" on disability any longer... then it took forever to get my option C printout because the mail in my city is just stupid... things like that. Oh... plus we ordered his first FBI check... not realizing it had to be within a certain timeframe, and when we got the second ones done, they came with his phone number where his social security number was supposed to be!!!
ANYWAY...
Just want him here... don't care if we have to make our finances work on one income, don't care if we have to store his stuff for months, I just want him here. I feel cheated out of my first year of marriage... and I'm tired of having to say goodnight on the phone. I miss my husband. It took me a lifetime to find him...
I'm sorry but the first few weeks after he leaves are terribly hard... and I think right now I'm struggling and having a hard time with the "be happy, you're lucky to have found him" mantra that I chant to myself daily and often hourly.
so... if we can't bring up his stuff, that's fine. Can we change his address with Buffalo though?
And once the 6 months is up... can he drive back over the border and then come back for another 6 months? Or does he have to go back for a specific amount of time?
Thanks guys... sorry for the rant