inHisowntime said:
First of all how did they know about the "traditional marriage" to begin with?
The question above gives me a deep thought.
First l will say l hope everything turn out to be good for you because you,ve come a long way.
Now back to the fact of life in which we all need wisdom in every areas of our lives. If you want to judge me base on this message, l will welcome you but you need to ask yourself if you are a saint. I know some will say you don't need to make this kind of message public, if l do make it private how would others learn from making such mistakes in future. The government that gives us laws are ready to do many things to back the laws, government do a lot of things to safe a nation in good or in bad way, in truth or in lies, they need to safe the nation.
Do you know why the authority keep telling you at the point of arrest that anything you say or do will be use against you at the court of law? Sometime what we put down in our application jeopadize our application, how do they know about it? We all know the answer to that question, when you know in your mind that you do not have back up for your statement or actions at any point in time, l don't see the reason why you need to make such moves against yourself knowingly or unknowingly, the immigration staff are doing their job and they justify you base on what you and l put in the application...don't get me wrong here, l am not encouraging you to tell lies but things you know within yourself that you cannot get any back up for it, l don't see the point in bringing such into light, some even go to the extent of providing fake documents because they want to back themselves up in certain area...if you want to proof me wrong about this fact, l will give you examples in the government, in the holy books that we need to apply wisdom sometime in whatever we are doing.
A lot of people are scared of saying certain things on here, if l am scared and you are scared to say some things in a public, who is going to pass the knowledge, l am sad sometime when l see real and genuine people denied of their faith and those that play pranks got what they want because they learned the tricks and they speak the immigration languages and give them what they want to see.
These are the area that immigration lawyers or other lawyers take advantage of people by doing addition and subtraction of documents before presenting it at the court of law or any where it necessary.
I learned many things in the past from various embassies and l attended several seminars but every time you need to learn from people and their mistakes and this are the reason that this forum is helpful because of the information that generates from here.
I don't know how else l could pass this message accross to us than to make it public and if you want to express judgemental attitude or criticize me base on this message, be my guest.
My point is we need to be careful on what we say or put down in our applications.
We need to learn from one another, God bless.
