I agree. But do remember, We (including myself) have put all plans on hold OURSELVES. Visa Office have not told us that "don't have a kid, don't buy furniture etc etc"...they never expect u to stop your normal life for immigration....these are all our own self imposed restrictions/plannings and vo is not gonna keep this into consideration...
Further, with all due respect :
this whole "have a kid/dont have a kid" discussion is absolutely retarded....its a decision that needs to be taken by two people who are gonna raise the kid, FORUM MEMBERS opinion or suggestions does not count, coz they don't even know you, your lives, circumstances, financial constraints etc etc....so if u are old enough to be a father/mother, you should be old enough to make this decision on your own with your spouse, and not involve ABSOLUTE stranger's advise.... We r all grown ups and not school kids, and realise the consequences/responsilities of having a kid. TRUST ME, no one needs advise/suggestion on this issue....
Reminder: this is an "immigration forum", not a "family planning" forum....If u wanna have a kid, have a kid......if u don't wanna have a kid, don't have a kid...
no use discussing this here !!! Grow up, be a man before becoming a father, and take this deicison yourself, since only YOU know your circumstances...
no offense intended.
