i was told $250 a week which is $1000 a month and $6000 for the 6 months i know i wont spend near that amount ( but better to be safe than sorry right ) as i will be staying at hers ( with a return ticket ) and then looking for the extention for another 6 months then her to sponsor me depending on how long everything takes for me to get all this paper work done we have talked about married but i dont want to go there unless everything else cant be done as i want a really wedding not a register one and would like to live together for awhile before as well but we will see i guess iam being strong about it all its just takes forever and yes there has been alot of sleepless night and stressful times but we are going to get through it
she cant visit me so easy as she has kids and she says that she cant take them abroad without the father's consent and she says they wouldnt so she would have to get someone to look after them and then they be out of school to so its harder
so how did you get this letter what is it called did you send yours off yet and how long was it before you got it back ?
sorry all the questions just when you know roughly its like a light at end of tunnel
you will see you girlfriend again too mate cause when you was there you knew thats what you wanted like i did the first time so all this is worth it
westy