FS..you already have heard me tell you that you are paranoid. You really are making yourself crazy by getting angry at every little detail. I have no idea what visa officers are like, but I will tell you this, which I think I told you before, I was worried a lot mostly about my low income, or wat cic would think or our relationship. Also I had a really rough life and made some incredibly bad choices that have come back to haunt me later in my life, so I was also worried about that. It made me feel super anxious about the process, all through this my husband and I are separated so I dont even have the comfort that I feel, the security I feel when I am with him. Imagine the stress of someone who earns 7G's a year, has a son with an aquired brain injury, having to find (legitimatly) plane fares for 5 ppl every summer, and plane fare for myself 2-3 more times that year just to keep the link, to get that exhale to be with the person u adore, love and your best friend.
I have come along way from a little girl from Jamaica who was abandoned in Canada at age 12, and had to sleep in some very unsavory places. I have tried to live my life being kind to others, tried to do my own thing, and be the best person I can be with what little I know how. My husband albeit far, has been a huge positive factor in our lives and a true blessing. So I dont know if my speedy approval time is god's work or the visa officers but someone who looked at our file must have had a heart, and intelligence to see the truth that lies beneath. I hope you understand I am explaining these personal and private things to give you some peace. Your brain needs a rest
Best wishes you and yours and same to you Fencesitter. 