Hello Lpreet,
I don't see your views as negative or discouraging; you are just anxious, a bit frustrated and also a bit nervous just like the rest of us. Though it is one of the hardest things to do, you have to remain hopeful and positive. I see in Tbaba's post where he said he is aware of someone getting PER 155 days after application date, so as long as you don't receive a NER, there is ALWAYS hope.
So keep your head up and keep praying, The Lord answers prayers in just the right time.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
SS