supousal suponsership

[DIFFICULTTIME]

Question for you all! please help! in seriouse need of help!

i got married to my husband under three years ago outside of canada. then i supponsord him and brought him to canada( i signed the agreement form) my three years of bringing him here is yet to be over. and then he can obtain canadian cizitizenship.

But recently his mother has come to canada on visitor visa( who i co-signed to bring to canada and also applied for suponsership under family class with her other son age 21; yet not in process)

since his mother has arrived to india. him and i have been having problems. he recently told me that he chooses his mother over me any day, which means he is willing to leave me as well.

now i start to wonder if he just got married to me for ticket entry to canada!?
he has been phyically abusive as well lately been emotionaly as well.

Can I do something to have him and his dear mother deported back to their mother country? I no longer wish to take his or his family's responsabilty for next ten years.

can someone give me some sort of gaudiance!

very much appricated!

looking forward to all of yours replies and directions!

sadly in love and confused!

 

[Leon]

Unless you can prove that your husband committed some kind of fraud to get into Canada, lied about his background etc. it will be very hard for you to get him deported. You are however only responsible if he goes on welfare within the 3 year period since he landed in Canada as a PR. Then you will be asked to pay it back.

It is not possible for you to sponsor his mother and brother for immigration. When you say you have, I would assume that you mean that you have co-signed on your husbands application to sponsor them so that your husband could show your income as well as his own. If you are not sure about this, you should contact immigration and withdraw your co-sponsorship. If his mother and brother get their PR, you will be held financially responsible for his mother for 10 years after she lands as a PR. His brother only until he turns 25 which will probably not be a problem since these applications take so long he will probably not get his PR before then but the mother, if she goes on welfare or disability within 10 years of getting PR, you will be responsible for half of that, your husband for the other half.

 

[SenoritaBella]

You should seriously consider reporting the abuse and call the police immediately if he hits you again. As he is still a permanent resident, he can be deported if convicted of a serious crime(such as domestic violence).

 

[DIFFICULTTIME]

Thank you all for your support with your replied to my post! yes i co-singed the application! but i have made up my mind i will today withdrawel my name from it. can i also rivoke myself from my husband's responsbily agreement as well? yes he has been vilonet towards me and also he threaten me last night, if it happens again i dont know what will happen.. his exact words! what am i suppose to take that as? such a big dission to make.. the sad thing is i love him. but i will not live with verable and phyiscal abuse! thats not what i grew up with and thats not what i want my kids to grow up in as welll.

 

[DIFFICULTTIME]

one more question to add to my previouse post. once he is deported from canada. can he still come canada via his other marriage or family class?

 

[scylla]

No - you can't revoke yourself from your husband's responsibility agreement. You are responsible for him for three years after landing and if he goes on welfare during this time, you will be responsible for paying it back.

If he's threatening you and being violent towards you - you should really report this to the police.

Finally, don't assume he will be deported. As Leon explain, it's quite difficult to get someone deported. Also, you cannot have his mother deported. She is allowed to stay here as long as her visitor visa is valid.

I don't understand what you mean by "can he still come to canada via his other marriage". Is he married to someone else as well as you?

 

[SenoritaBella]

My dear, I know you are hurting but I think your priorities are a little misplaced at this point. Your life is more important than getting him deported. Worse still, you are trying to do so while continuing to live with him which is a dangerous situation for you. Google "Yeardley Love" and read her story.

one more question to add to my previouse post. once he is deported from canada. can he still come canada via his other marriage or family class?

 

[DIFFICULTTIME]

no he is not married to two ppl at the same time.
what i meant was. if he was to get deported to india and divorces me, and gets remarried to someone from here can he get back to the country!

 

[Leon]

If he gets deported, he probably gets banned for some years or for life depending on why he got deported. I really do not know too much about that aspect but I think he might be able to apply to lift such a ban in some cases, all depending on what it is for.

However, instead of focusing on how to get him deported or if he might be able to come back, you should focus on moving forward with your own life and forgetting about this guy because there are a lot more constructive things you can do with your life than take revenge.

If he is abusive towards you, leave him and press charges against him. Justice will take its course. Depending on the charges and if the charges stick, he may or may not be deported because of that. He may re-marry, sponsor his mom and brother and they will all live in Canada happily ever after but you need to move on with your life to be happy. You can not make that your concern.