Success here but not without hurdles and some wildcards.
Outland application for my Mexican husband. We got married after a 3 year relationship, our only living together for an extended period was 4 months, besides that many 1-4 week trips 3-4 times a year. We had applied for a working holiday visa through IEC back in 2012 and he was refused, as such never applied for a visitor visa as all advice was it would be a waste. My husband also has 2 young as granges children, and knowing he likely wouldn't be able to locate them let alone have medicals done for them was a huge concern. Nevertheless I educated myself well, thanks to this forum and other posts, specifically regarding the kids, so I knew how to best approach that. What I learned was that CIC is really looking for evidence that you tried to produce dependants, and are not just simply choosing not to. The only means of communication with the kids mother was a private Facebook profile but she uses her full name so we are sure it her. My husband messaged her on repeat occasions regarding their whereabouts and of course there was no response. We included these messages with our application up front, along with a cover letter outlining their relationship from start to finish and their last period of communication. A lawyer also provided CIC forms (not available online) declaring that my husband understands he cannot sponsor them in the future.
Aside from that I was intent on putting together a strong application, with little doubt of our relationship being genuine, we had a large wedding, with both of our families and friends in attendance. I did have the luxury of knowing some friends who have been through this process already. Their advice from the beginning was invaluable, save everything, takes loads of pictures. My SA relationship story was over 30 pages including photos laid in it, along with travel documents all I'm chronological order. I was our love story and I wrote it that way, I even spoke to the visa officer reading it in parts.
After months of work we sent our app in Sept 2014. It's hard to let it go, I think many people find. You go over things with a fine toothed comb to the point you can't even look at it anymore but you are so worried you missed something... A signature here, a field there...
We received a letter saying our package was incomplete in October. I couldn't believe I had made a mistake, I'm just too particular... My husband didn't sign the back of his photos! Surely I couldn't have missed that... Well I didn't. The Latin America guide no where instructs you to do this. So I call CIC, I get a nice guy who agrees with me, but says nothing they can do, send new photos. $100 later to courier new photos from Mexico. I'm so upset, it's now late October. I call CIC a few weeks later as I've heard nothing - "oh, you go to the back of the line"... What? You have delayed us 2 months, and it's not even my fault?? Well, I lost it. After a short pity party, I emailed the immigration
Minister, and my MP's office. My MP's office responded immediately (thank God someone cares). They fought on my behalf for a couple weeks, it had to go to a CIC procedural review board, but I was right, and they promised to move our file to where it should have been, and not penalize us for their mistake.
So we got SA in and waited every longer for anything from the Mexican VO (file transfer is at a snails pace).
Police checks in Mexico cannot be done upfront, federal checks are only available with a government request letter, in this case from the canadian embassy. And if you are not in Mexico City, you need to go to the state capitals office to have this done... But they are so rare that even the local office staffer didn't know this, we got the run around about where he needed to go about 4 times before he finally spoke to someone who could give him a straight answer. New problem, he never did his mandatory military service, and he needs the registration card for his police clearance. Well this was a tough time for us, I wasn't even speaking to him for weeks. So infuriated that he could screw this up, had he just read the website with the requirements before getting the request letter... But noooooo. So without help or support from me, he ended up first going 3 hours to where he was born to get a letter saying he never registered for military service there; waited 3 days for the letter; came home and went to apply for his registration card; waited 5 days for the card; travlled 3 hours to the state capital office to hav his police check done (after more pictures and having to shave his head for them); went home waited 10 days for the clearance certificate; travlled 3 hours back to pick it up (they won't email/courier/release to someone else); arrived at the office to find out it was closed (cinco de mayo, which contrary to popular believe is not actually a holiday in Mexico); the security felt sorry for him and called the secretary into the office to give him his clearance (phew); travlled 3 hrs home; had to get it translated and notarized; shipped it off....
After this they sent requests for medicals for his kids, he responded that they could not be located for a medical as per our application. And this actually went better than expected! They sent more declaration forms, asked for an explanation again, and that was it!
He received his passport back last Friday - I fly down in 1 month, and I'm bringing my man home august 1
It has been a crazy ride, this can easily break you, and your relationship... But it is truly the best test of love, if two people can get through this, especially apart... How great will life be together!