So, anecdotally, what should I tell the IO? I haven't crossed since getting married and I'm wicked nervous! The facts are: my parents are driving me up and will stay the weekend to visit with my husband. I, obviously, want to stay for as long as possible within the letter of the law, as it were--finish the PR app, send it in, get visitor record extension when necessary, hopefully be granted PR status. But telling the IO, "I want to stay for as long as possible and will apply for an extension when necessary" and not having a set return date sounds like a recipe for disaster.
We're not going to have the app done. I'll have had my medical and sent in my FBI stuff. We could pay the fees and I could bring a receipt. I don't plan to bring a lot of stuff. I could tell the iO that I plan to apply for PR, show them the app, medical/FBI/proof of marriage, etc. and that I'd like to stay for 6 months and hope for the best. Or I could neglect to mention filing for PR unless specifically asked, but I don't want to pick a date at random to say I'll leave by. Argh.
We're not going to have the app done. I'll have had my medical and sent in my FBI stuff. We could pay the fees and I could bring a receipt. I don't plan to bring a lot of stuff. I could tell the iO that I plan to apply for PR, show them the app, medical/FBI/proof of marriage, etc. and that I'd like to stay for 6 months and hope for the best. Or I could neglect to mention filing for PR unless specifically asked, but I don't want to pick a date at random to say I'll leave by. Argh.