I know what you are saying but I guess at the end of the day we have to think from their point of view. They 'know nothing' about our marriage. We have to prove to them that the marriage is genuine and functioning like most other people these days which involves social media in some shape or form. They want to see if other people know about our relationship. They rely on evidence from facebook, instagram etc. They cant see in our hearts if that makes senseso we need to publicized our wedding whether we want to or not? Instagram, facebook Twitter... if we don't do this OR don't have friends or families letters (in this 21st century) really letters needed? not every one post each and every event of their personal life? some of us don't want to post our husband or wife pics on facebook? then what? and when we have whatsapp viber IMO etc then who writes the letters or email? and if someone don't do this or don't have this, then red flags? then marriage is fake then PFL? OR interview
Me and my wife are stick to only Whatsapp. We both decided to use only channel of our communication so we have all our conversation at one place. we dont want to chat on Whatsapp then jumo to IMO then VIber then on Skype when we can do chat, audio calls video calls on whatsapp.