my first marriage ended this way .. thankfully it was only a nikkah - no rukhsakti .. but still .. i went into deep depression .. i didn't even want to marry .. it was a horrible experience .. i will pray for you .. Allah hum sub ko himmat day .. ameen
After having two kids , they still asking to prove the marriage is genuine.
Marriage is genuine we gave them every thing pics, proof of traveling together, the biggest proof is two sons, their birth certificates,bay forms, frc, tickets, communication proof,we talk daily, money transfer receipts everything.. I'm just asking in order to answer the letter what else can I send?
Tell them that this is normal in pakistan to have bigger age difference. Tell them you both are happily married and have kids and struggling to cope with situation of living apart ,created for us by immigration process, he visiting me and we always stay in contact.
Lol 15 is pretty normal age difference in South Asian countries. LVO is run by heartbroken people who can't see two people in love, be together. Hence raising stupid af objections and delaying processes for us. May Allah Almighty bless us all with courage to face them and may we all be united with our patners as soon as possible, despite the stupid attempta of lvo. Ameen to that.
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I think you have covered everything. If they request again then send recent proofs-daily communication and more pics, recent trips etc. Have they asked to explain age difference?
Come on..15 years of age difference in this time is not "pretty normal" even in Pakistan. 0-8 years of age difference is considered normal. LVO has recently called applicants for interview where differece was of 9-10 years.
what stage of the application are you at? has you file gone to LVO yet?
In their countries no body care about age, French president married to a woman 24 years elder to him, in West they dont care who they marry if they like each other then thats it, that is the only criteria. But for asian countries they are looking for shoe sizes , may be it is just the previous experiences they had with people who used fraudulent means to get to canada.
True that. Age doesn't matter in modern centuary lol. What matters is the understanding and intellectual capibility of both so if anyone is upto the mark in every trait, no one gives a damn about age. It's just that LVO needs to let go the old mindset and old cultural history of Pak. We have a changed a lot and they need to realize that. Anyways god be with us.
in fraud cases, Husband is not visiting 4 times to meet his wife and staying 1 and half year. On top they both have 2 kids together. It can't be a fraud case. Can't believe after even 2 kids they are asking if the marriage is GENUINE...? 15 years - 20 years age difference is nothing. Its girl's and her parents choice if they are marrying to a person with this age difference. this is Insane....If Mian biwi razi to kiya kaare ga Qazi..
