Sorry, I didn't make myself clear.
I have some kinda special situation that makes my case a little bit different than usual and that's the reason why I'm so desperate.
I had my PR issued through the old Foreign Skilled Worker program (Applied in 2014, visa issued in 2015) and I was single at the time. When my wife and I started dating it was right after my PR was issued and as our relationship got serious and mature, we decided that we were going to get married before my landing so I would include her in my original application and we would both land together.
I suddenly got a job offer in Canada, what made us change our plans. We decided that would be great to move up already employed and since I could sponsor her as a landed immigrant, we decided to move up to Canada, get married here and submit her sponsorship application. But there were some things that I didn't know.
First of all, my wife's English skills are almost none so she has to study English. As a visitor, she doesn't have the right to pay low-cost fees so we have to spend an average of $600 dollars per month for her to go to English classes.
Also, since we're living in Ontario, she is not eligible to apply for OHIP until we pass the first stage of the process (Approval In Principle) that currently is taking something around 1 year at least as per what I can read from other members and that makes us also to pay for her to have a private insurance that covers only urgent/emergency cases. This means she cannot have a family doctor, cannot do regular check-ups and follow-ups regarding some conditions she has. Also, the insurance does not pay for medication.
All those extra costs have brought into a very delicate situation. I know she could apply for an OWP but we saw no reason for such once she does not have enough language skills yet.
All that being said resulted in some very stressful situation not only financial but emotional as well. I ended up having to get a second job to manage to pay for all the expenses and almost doing magic to save some money in case she needs to see a doctor (this already happened. First of all, private insurances are not directly billed by the health provider so you have to pay out of your pocket for the expenses and claim for a reimbursement later. Not to mention medication sometimes can host more than $100 and is not covered). I wake up every day at 5:30AM and get back home no earlier than 7:00PM. We even went to a food bank in the last 2 months in order to help us save some money.
It's hard to hear from the one you love that she feels like a piece of sh..... That she's sorry by not being able to help you and that she feels responsible for you being said and stressed. Plus, OHIP's eligibility rules are tough. In some other provinces, she would be already eligible just by being my dependant or by simply being applied to the PR under Spousal Sponsorship Inland program.
Sorry once again if I used improper terms, I deeply apologize for that, but I spent about 4-5 years of my life dreaming about moving to Canada, studying, preparing myself to be eligible to be a PR and now all the dream has turned to a (temporary) nightmare. Since we moved in we can barely go out to a movie or dinner out. Our lives have struggled and we really see no way out of it till she becomes a PR and can at least have OHIP and pay $30 per quarter to study English.
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(