
You are right Angie about being careful when you hire a lawyer or a consultant. The best way to hire one is through reference, someone who has been throught the process.
What you are saying is like saying well you don't need a doctor, just get a medical book, look up your problem and then heal yourself. It may work for some but not the majority.
Not everyone will do what you did and travel to get answers. Many don't understand and cannot read forms. I had many come to me to check their applications and I had to redo them completely or partially and docuements missing etc. It's easy to say to someone that they don't need someone and if that were true then they wouldn't exist.
As there are bad doctors. there are bad lawyers and consultants but the way you talk its as if all of them are. It isn't true. There are more good ones than bad ones only we never hear about them in the news. Only the bad ones we hear about. Why? Because no one is interested in hearing good things about people. Sensenalisim is what sells..not the goody two shoes.
You have to be careful what you say. What is easy for you, may not be for someone else and many don't speak the language either. Like money, doctors, lawyers etc are needed and like money..which can be dirty..some are also..but not the majority.
As for Bounce, he is just needing to release his frustrations, a man who says that a husband isn't responsible for his family, well we can imagine what he is like and am sure everyone here knows it to..except ...him :wink: