well i was one of those refused, but i do not think it was because of racism as the previous post claims.
I know that our refusal has much to do with my past with the circumstances of my ex. I do believe and still like to believe that Canada immigration system works and does allow couples to get reunited and for true reasons. Having said this, i will be filing for an appeal upon my reciept of the letter of denial from Rabat office. I know that my husband today and for always will be by my side in a matter of time. I will continue to wait patiently as my pregnancy develops and i know that in the end, they ( Canada immigration) will see that our relationship has many merits..as proven through the relationship of my daughter, from previous relationship and my husband of present. I love him very much and i know this distance is a tortue, but i also know that things happen for a reason. I believe that all good things happen to those who wait. I am one of those. I am a believer and i have chosen not to give and to fight for my husband to be by my side.
I will be contacting my MP, but this will only be for help in stating our case, which has all the evidence that the relationship has developed greatly with my husband. I wouldn't be having his baby just to grant him citizenship...that's just crazy....i do not like people who use the system in that manner at all. I am a Canadian tax payer and like to think that my money is being placed in the right spot to meet the criteria.
I will not give up!! but do not feel that posting such things is a benefit to anyone right now..i know you must be hurt but try to find a solution and prove to immigration Rabat office that your relationship is not what they think of it. this appeal is the time to do it...use it wisely. I know i will. and i do this for the love i have for my husband and daughter and soon to be born baby. If i had a choice i would have stayed on in Morocco and spent the time with my husband, but unfortunately i do not have full custody of my daughter yet and her biological father would not let me stay away for so long with her. Two months was the max and i was happy to even have that.
Jamal honey, both Meriam and I love you very much and we know that things will come around soon, insha allah
Indira
P.S. to those of you waiting to be married, please make sure to have a traditional wedding with lots of guest and many msn messages/ along with photos..i know that this will help a great deal. May Allah bless all of you and guide your marriage to prosperity and togetherness.