Amy612,
Lost of file and IELTS/other documents not received is reported in 1 in 10,00,000 cases.
You must not bring exception as an example. There is actually nothing to update the Ecas on a regular basis as the Ecas has mainly 3-4 statuses. Received by Visa Office, IN PROCESS, Documents Received and reviewed and we sent a letter, IN PROCESS, Medical Result Received, Decision Made. do you want them to write, Todaay we Took Amy's file , started reading at 9am and then went to lunch at 1pm, then again started reviewing at 2pm, then found one document is missing, posting that in Ecas, then bla bla bla. No , this is not thy work, they have their own style to work and they work on 30-40 files on any given day so they have no scope to give ample amount of time on any1.
FSW applicants are suffering in other difficulties like keeping their PoF for a long time, their kids growing up in a 3rd world and some may be growing up and reached teen/adult stage by the time they get their visas, And the worst happened to Pre Feb 2008 applicants- their applications will be returned without processing, 280,000 lost 5-8 years from their lives dreaming for Canada.
On the other hand, you are losing the love and togetherness. I'd advise you to go to your wives at least 3-4 times a year. I know many false cases of marriage and they divorced. True lovers never leave each other for delay in Processing the visas. If your wife leaves you for such conditions, she's leave you when you'd be sick, or in shortage of money for her lavish comfort.
There are absolutely not much schools, Hospitals, and there are shortage of funds for a newcomer in Canada. the situation is getting worst day by day, Unemployment rate is 8.2% now and they have seen that many spouses go there and dont work and dont contribute to Canada yet availing the social and national conveniences. Minsiter Kenney has Reiterated these things many times. The slowness of processing the spouse class is very much similar with the parents'. No Contribution to Canada ! Just a burden with health Plan and other things must always be served to them. Canada's Economy is going down and when you are not hungry , what you do? You start taking less food.
I guess all of you knew that this would take pretty long and you should not be worried as you will not be refused, either be called for an interview or Granted your Visas some day.