i know EXACTLY how you feel.
Update on my case, I woke up at 1 am and looked at my phone(which i dont usually do) and there was an email from VO, with my heart pounding I opened it to find a passport and photos request from them! Called my husband, who was about to call me and thank the Lord(like seriously His timing is just so perfect) he was already in KL which is where the drop off location is and my husband had also brought his documents along so he was able to get everything submitted a few hours after receiving the email. I'm hoping to have him here by Christmas but we will see. I'm beyond ecstatic and so thankful to God and you guys here on this forum for being so supportive!
Will keep everyone updated