yellow123 said:
Dear toutesweet,
Thanks for your reply Can you please tell me what are ALL the proofs that you have provided to support your relationship to be genuine? Please give me your list.
Also did you send them more proofs later?
Regards.
Pg 521 I wrote you a list. I did send more proof. Two years later, I uploaded passport stamps to show I had been back 3 times and we had travelled together.
Originally I put copies of phone records and highlighted our calls. The face page of our shared emails from an inbox and sent messages search with his name, many pictures, pics with his family and friends. Wedding photos of course.
A letter from a friend confirming our relationship.
I probably could have used a couple more of these, but don't put more than four I figure. We had a Khmer friend whose English is good write one, but it was a very flowery work of romantic fiction so I didn't include it. Simple and honest. I would have gotten a couple of our expat friends to write letters to attach into the more evidence but at that point I knew we didn't need it. His family can't speak English and mine was against the marriage at the time. They're mostly over it now. The point is letters from family would have been better but weren't an option.
I had a few hotel receipts with both our names on it and a lease from the apt. we live at while I'm there with both our names on it. Various bus and train tickets and random meal receipts.
I had, but never sent, because I knew by then I didn't need it, a wire transfer to BNH Hospital in Bangkok where he went to get an urgent surgery along with the detailed receipts. There's a couple more things on my previous post.
My advice is, don't delete anything or throw anything away. Take pictures, this was big for my husband and I because neither of us like pics much, be conscious of gathering evidence, normally for eg. Our landlady would have just put one of our names on a receipt every month. We asked her to put both on a lease.
Don't make yourself crazy with it. I delayed our application for three months trying to get phone records from my phone company at the time. That was stupid, and worse, after all their promises, I never did get them anyway and caused my own delay. Just be conciencious on gathering without worrying about every scrap. I never did manage to get Skype to list our history either, but it's good to have if you can.
