Aquakitty said:
A LIFETIME of difference? Some of you maybe, need to do some reading or something. Geez. There is very little difference between 24 and 36, to be honest. Are you sure you don't need glasses? When's the last time you saw an 11 year old mom. Bloody hell, people.
Based on your other thread, it had much more to do with your wife's past marriage, and your quick marriage with no ceremony this time. You need to start the appeal process. Order notes and see what exactly went wrong.
Your other option is to deal with the reasons in the notes, and reapply.
Thank you for your support in retaliation to that other person's horrible comment.
But also in reply to your comment, this was no "quick marriage" by any means. We were engaged for more than a year, and it literally took 6 weeks to even be able to get married in Morocco due to the absurd amount of paperwork, travelling, translating, stamping of documents in local ministries, photocopies, stress and headaches. Not to mention the cost of doing all of this!
My previous marriage went like this ... met him in Cairo while I was on vacation, spent 3 weeks there. I returned home, kept in contact. But not the same as amine454 and I, it was barely contact (I was stupid I know but whatever) returned a year later (was supposed to be for 3 weeks and turned into 4 months) got stuck in Egypt because of the revolution and all flights were grounded wasn't able to get a new flight out until may. So, ended up staying with him and his family, got married cuz I thought I was in love. Sponsored him and he came here.... one day I went to work, came home, and he was gone. No word as to why, or when, just left. Next day was served with a no-contact order for 3 years (this enabled his "escape" obviously) many months went by before I could find someone who could help me get contact enough to get a request for divorce he fled to Toronto, furthering difficulties. The divorce took until November 2015 to be finalised. By which time amine and I had been together nearly a year already. Law in Morocco states that a divorced woman must wait 3 months before remarriage to give the ex husband a chance to reconcile if he wishes. Amine and I married in April 2016 literally 60 hours before my scheduled flight home. We badly wanted to have a wedding and party with the family, but it simply wasn't possible with the little time we had left. All we could do was rest after our great ordeal that it took to get married, and try to enjoy the little time we had left.
I had attempted to change my flight to extend my stay, but next available booking wasn't until the middle of May, yet I was to report back to work April 22 two days after my arrival from Morocco. I called work and they told me it was ok to stay a little but I must report by May 1 or risk losing seniority and have to start from ground zero.
As for our age difference, it doesn't even feel like a difference, and what that person said about me being "past my prime" as far as child baring ... that's just ABSURD! I'm healthy and fertile. Can't believe someone would even say that.
