well see i feel like i am at a fresh start here, i didnt do anything yet and i have been reading a lot to understand things (im 26yo and shes 23yo), last time she came she couldnt stay for long because of her work and school she only stayed 5 days, when i went i stayed 10 days then 7 then 8 this time shes here for 10 days. we plan to live in canada ontario (where i live now) because i already have a job and stable so she will be able to go to university and such till she finishes. I am just wondering about that and also the inland vs outland thing because i am really tired of not having her here, its so frustrating and i really thinking to just get married now in a town hall then do one in the us for her with church and stuff for her family