Louman64 said:
By the way ... we lived together for almost seven years and had 1 kid but we seperated for about 3 years but now we settled our differences ... been back to manila 4 times already and we had another child
Any time you spent living together before your 3 year breakup is
irrelevant. You would need to have re-established your common-law relationship by living a new 12 months together after getting back together.
It would be the same as if a married couple got a divorce, then got back together again but didn't get married. They would not be considered married again, until they went through the legal process again of getting married. Living together 12 months for common-law is the same thing.
Having children together does nothing to help in defining cohabitation rules for it to be a legal common-law relationship.
As mentioned you should prepare for your app being rejected. If you can go and get married to your partner, you should do that. Else you'll need to find a way to live together for 1 year. If none of these are possible (i.e. if your partner is married and can't get divorced in Philippines), then you can possibly consider a conjugal application.