alicia13 said:It was not a "guarantee" that things will turn out perfectly, just an encouragement that most of time things work out one way or the other. I was faced with a hospital bill for the birth of my baby, it wasn't easy to come up with 5K with only my husband working but in the end things worked out. A bit of optimism with a dash of realism can make the world of a difference when faced with a tough situation. Being negative and expecting the absolute worse benefits no one. I don't understand why you took offense to something that wasn't even directed at you.
I didn't take offense, but childbirth is something that requires good planning, not optimism. Yes, childbirth is natural and largely safe; but the potential to go wrong is always there. My grandparents live in an island close to Vancouver without roads, ferry access, or medical services -- a young couple next to their house planned to give birth there. Childbirth usually can work by itself, but this one didn't and the baby died that night. Their plan made perfect sense if you think that everything will come out like it should -- why not have the baby in a beautiful island location? -- but it makes no sense if you think that childbirth sometimes requires immediate referral to a medical specialist. The poster is worried about the cost of complications, and they should be -- as noted above, receiving an 80,000 bill can spoil a life for many years, and they need to develop a plan to avoid that. I think encouraging them to plan based on the assumption that all will be well isn't helpful, that's all.