Status sill showing as "In Review" is acceptable, and you'll still get your eCOPRs nevertheless. I have the same situation as yours, the reason why your spouse is receiving all the emails is because she is the PA (Primary Applicant) and all correspondence will happen through her email ID. Technically, it musts be a glitch of some kind, as the website gets updated with your copy of COPRs as soon as you receive the Confirmation email. If you haven't received it even now, try reaching out to IRCC either through that portal email ID or toll free number.
Also, please try to check at the very bottom of the page where you click on your name and see the status of your mailing address, photo, etc. I know this sounds stupid, but I missed seeing the eCOPR download button the first time I opened the portal after getting the Confirmation email. Apparently, I just scrolled until the photograph section and didn't scroll enough to see the 'Download' button and panicked for a short while.