Please help

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I really don’t think it’s that. He (or she) often posts in such a way that you fully understand the situation you’re in. It’s not meant to judge or be offensive. Spousal sponsorship is a very serious undertaking and should be treated as such.

It is Autumn, Everyone knows this. (Well Most) However you don't completely ignore the basis of someones question to give your "input" on whether or not the person who sponsored them should have been sponsoring them in the first place. This is real life we are living. Why make a person who probably already feels like crap due to their situation feel worse by telling them they should not have been sponsored in the first place. I can understand warning the person who would be taking up the responsibility on themselves. But not the PA who was doing everything on the up and up and was jilted in the end....Where am I wrong in defending her stance. Its not the first time I've seen this or I would not have said a word. This is a place to get help not feel bullied.