mrsamcan, I am sailing in the same boat as you. Can't get the PF statement signed/endorsed by the employer and I don't think they'll issue a letter stating that it can withdrawn. I'm however planning to use the official EPFO documents/links that state that you can liquidate these funds when moving abroad permanently.
Was your online PF statement accepted?
No, I got ADR. I see many who submitted PF got ADR OINP. I had to find other means for POF.