While it is true that the waiting time is frustrating, let us not forget that (AT LEAST) the Canadian government has given us the opportunity to be with our spouses so we can spend more time with them instead of being miles apart. This makes it less emotionally frustrating.
Let us look at the bright side of things. While we are not yet entitled to work, why don't we make the most out of it by just enjoying being with our spouses, or explore the town, smell the roses, bond with nature, and all other cheesy stuff lol. It's gonna be VERY different when we start with our jobs. Don't waste your time and energy on negative stuff.