melanie957 said:
Thank you both for your responses, I am still somewhat unsure as to how to proceed as this request has come out of the blue and I have been give a very short time to respond to such a request without full understanding of the full process.
My children have resided with me for 8 years with very little contact with their father and whilst I would not wish to hamper their future options, I do have concerns about them undergoing this medical, especially as my 15 year old daughter would be treated as an adult and would have to undergo HIV and PAP testing.
I think some further reserach would have to be undertaken to ensure that I was acting in their best interests in which ever direct we as a family chose to go.
I really would not worry about the medical for your Children. It is no big deal, just like a normal trip to the docs with a few tests, a quick listen to the heart etc and off you go. Your Daughter is not going to have to do a Pap and the medical is done in a professional manner. It will take an hour of their life.
I'll explain the Canadian immigration paperwork a bit so you understand where the request has come from.
All Canadian immigration applicants are required to list family members and dependents. They can be listed as accompanying to Canada or non accompanying. Your Children will have been listed as non accompanying dependents. Even though they don't live with their father CIC still requires they be added to the immigration application as dependents.
All dependents whether accompanying or not are asked to undergo a Medical examination by CIC. If the dependent does not have the medical exam then in immigrations eyes they are no longer members of the family class and can Never be sponsored. This is to stop abuse of the system. Family members do not have a health care excessive demand threshold that they need to be under so without this restriction 1 person could emigrate and then sponsor other family members who should have been included in the first place and who might not have passed the medical.
As an EX Wife you too will have to have been listed on the application as an Ex Spouse.
If your ex is a total w****r who would never sponsor his Children and the type the what's nothing to do with the kids then in that situation it's really up to you if you want the Children to go for the medical. Situations can change but if their father would never be willing to sponsor them anyway there's no benefit for the kids in having a medical.
Does he want the Children to have a medical because he understands why and opportunities it might give the kids if he sponsors them in the future or just because CIC have said he must.
Even though the kids have had very little to do with their father try and put personal feelings aside and let them take the medical if there's even the remote opportunity the father would sponsor in the future. They could be sponsored as dependents up to age 22. It give's an easy opportunity to travel and work in Canada that most people could only dream off. The job situation in the UK is bleek.
CIC ask for Medicals to be completed within 60 days which is why the short time frame