Well funny enough i met my wife in a yahoo chatroom... i tell her all the times that we were just meant to be cause nothing about us is normal. I was at a bad place in life then and i was really bitter from what my ex had done to me, to be honest and i dont mean to sound like a total ass right now but i didnt have a positive mindset towards women other than the ones i was related to at that point. i just wanted to hurt the whole lot of them.
So happens i got a computer not too long after and my boy introduced me to yahoo messenger and chat rooms. I'd be on there flirting like flirting was going out of style, believe me, i was pretty devious and slick too.
I remember one night i went in one of the afro caribbean rooms with my usual bad intentions but despite all my flirting and everything i felt depressed that night. I was running through the names in the room when i came upon this one (sxybitch). clicked on her but she didnt have no pic, just an avatar. i went on to introduce myself... hi, asl.. all that stuff. I don't remember exactly what i said to her next but her response brought the the only smile my face would produce that entire day. For some reason, only god knows.. i didnt flirt with this girl, i didnt try to come off slick or nothing. We spent that entire night talking, nothing sexual or remotely rude and i was really loving the convo.... forgot to mention she was white too... not really what i expected to find in a chat room for island folks.
I couldnt wait to get online the next day to talk to her again and i believe thats the first time i saw a pic of her and not an avatar. She was beautiful, not sure if this makes sense since there's no white people living on my block but this girl had that fine girl next door look about her, she didn't look superficial one bit and i liked that. I remember her showing me this one pic in particular of her daughter, her niece and her nephew too... anways from then on it was like i race to get on the computer everyday so we could talk and we'd talk for HOURS. I'd be making sure i was looking fresh to death when im on cam, my best shirts on and dictionary resting in my lap.. didnt wanna misspell anything lol... my boy still teases me to about it to this day. Anyways, the more i talked to this woman the more i knew i wanted her till one day she says to me... '' i have something to tell you and I'll understand if you dont want to talk to me anymore''. i was really nervous and thinking not again when she told me the lil boy in the pic she showed me back on the second day was her son and that she didn't know didnt tell me cause she never expected she would like me this much( her friends had her mind set against Jamaicans lol).
Thats pretty much when i knew i this was real....
We got to know each other even better over the next couple months before Miss idontdatejamaicans would get on a plane and fly to Jamaica to do just that. August will be 5 years since we've been married, our daughter will be 4 years old in october. Thats my story...
