i don't know, when i was in school they will always talk about human rights. my parents were not allow to leave me alone if i was feeling stressed. but now they do not care. i think this is also against human rights. i am sorry i talk a lot , but no one else understand our pain.akss1983 said:Same is with me my dear friend. Dnt knw when they listen to our tears....
lolzz. same here ssgmahajan. dishum dishum lolssgmahajan said:Same here.. But instead of crying, we fight :/
Lol suman. Its actually not funny bcuz then we don't talk for a week at least..suman kaur said:lolzz. same here ssgmahajan. dishum dishum lol
yea, fight makes it worse. anyway just stay strong.ssgmahajan said:Lol suman. Its actually not funny bcuz then we don't talk for a week at least..
heymanveer said:it is killing my relationship, we both are so emotional so almost every night we cry( don't judge).
Same here... We end up fightingssgmahajan said:Same here.. But instead of crying, we fight :/
Hey SSGmahajan and everybody out there... Pls dont ever do these kind of things and dont fight with ur spouses regarding this waiting period..... I know its really hard for all of us... but i must tell you its not our Spouse's fault... and not even NDVOs... its just the huge amount of data they hv to take care of...ssgmahajan said:Lol suman. Its actually not funny bcuz then we don't talk for a week at least..
glad u laughed, same is with every girl who gets married and leaves her known world behind, its a big challenge. and for the guys accepting that someone into their lives, making her comfortable and molding their life around them is a big challenge. that's with everyone.......priya.k said:@manveer, ssgmahajan, akss1983, suman kaur, preetgill and bobgir, thank you guys for making me laugh today. I used to worry that my husband and I fight too much but its true that this is a common problem with long distance couples. For me, on one hand I'm waiting to start my life with Kunwar and on the other hand I feel sad about having to leave my parents behind and move to a country so far away. Life is full of challenges but you just have to learn to take everything in your stride.
it is 100% accurate.. it is open data from CIC. as per data, aug has 17 applicants. and the spreadsheet has 9.. seems good.. and sep has 5 applicants as u mentioned earlier. hope u understoodbobgir said:According to the data Aug month only 5 applicant but according to the excel sheet we HV already 9 ppl are in Aug month....this data might not be accurate.
Hello preetgill....preetgill said:hey
dont take me wrong or anything. i totally understand what u r going through. me and my spouse also fight and cry a lot(well i do the crying part ) anyways. . point is if u will stay positive and happy then your spouse will too. you gonna spend your entire life with them. dont get me wrong again this is the only time you guys will ever be apart. take is as an opportunity not an ordeal, u can pretend to still be in courtship period, flirt over the phone, write long sappy love letters, email each other. this is the only time u will ever get to do all this............. enjoy this time. make most of it.......enjoy ur me time.....and stay positive.......
its hard for everybody, even if someone is practical. still they have a heart that misses their partner.........
u will hear soon..........
stay happy not for yourself then for ur partner............
god bless u and all the very best........
Aww thank you so much for ur valuable suggestion... Smilepreetgill said:Right now, NDVO is working on JAN - FEB - MARCH applications, there is no point in doing any inquiry. You should wait for some more time, when ndvo picks up july files than u can do an inquiry. and straight away going for MP inquiry is not viable. first one should apply for notes. MP's are not free, one should not approach them until and unless there is a grave issue. MP cannot influence NDVO's decision. and if u approach them now on an early stage, they might not be as receptive the second time, when u might actually need an insight in ur application........
I know waiting is hard, but everyone is waiting....that is all one can do. wait and be positive & hopeful.