Hi
Can someone help me here and give me some advise. Am a bit confused with all this. Me and my families are born and raise in cape town (South Africa) I have an indian ancestry (so I look indian and I speak English, Zulu, French, Hindi, Urdu very fluently) ... The man I want to get married to; is originally from India.We met online (Facebook) through mutual friend n been in a long distance relationship for 1.5 year. The problems is, he spoke to his parents about me and they do not agree with this relation because am a foreigner etc and on my side, my family is cool with him. He still want to continue our relation and want to marry me and live together. Prior to that, we couldn't meet due financial reason but we are going to meet next year in south africa for 2 months, he will be staying in my house and if everything goes well, we would want to get married. (we are both muslims). so nikaah/civil.
My concern is, after i return to canada (Am a canadian citizen now) i want to sponsor him, is that going to cause problem with the Immigration in New Delhi? Because in my home country, the bride wear white gown (like indian catholic) and for mehendi they wear (Red/Green lehenga). So i will have both but his parents won't be in our wedding, only my families about 60 peoples. so we will have small reception only.
Will all this raise red flag, I do not want them to think my marriage is not genuine or anything. Can someone advise me?
