Absolutely agree..it is a black hole..
My way of dealing with this frustration is simple.. I haven't told many people about this immigration.. No curious gossipy Punjabi aunties quizzing me everyday; Not many people know at work. I guess that's because I am living in Canada where people mind their own business.
Secondly, I keep myself busy in whatever I do.. Work keeps me busy. But I have picked up hobbies which diverts my mind away from this frustrating wait. I just don't want think about this. I perhaps spend once every week going through this excellent forum, and have rarely posted anything to prevent my mind go on over-drive..
My way of dealing with this frustration is simple.. I haven't told many people about this immigration.. No curious gossipy Punjabi aunties quizzing me everyday; Not many people know at work. I guess that's because I am living in Canada where people mind their own business.
Secondly, I keep myself busy in whatever I do.. Work keeps me busy. But I have picked up hobbies which diverts my mind away from this frustrating wait. I just don't want think about this. I perhaps spend once every week going through this excellent forum, and have rarely posted anything to prevent my mind go on over-drive..