I know, this really sucks, but there is absloutly nth we can do but wait ..
Once ur spouse has the visa in hand, trust me none of us will even rember this time, it will be filled with happines ..
Even myself when i applied for my Hubby in April i felt like OMG october/ November so damn far, god know what will happen by then, but now all this time has gone by and made me stronger and all i know now is it's just going to be a bit more time and will i see him again.
Just have faith guys. I know it really hard.
:-*