need opinions about my case

[lolitaboom]

Hello everyone!
I'd like to post my story and have your opinions about my permanent residence application.
I met my husband online, we chatted and were friends for about two years, he was in another relationship at the time we met but we never talked anything serious just regular conversations as friends, a few hello's froom time to time ( WE DO NOT HAVE EMAILS FROM THIS TIME). In 2009 my husband and i started to talk in a more frecuent and friendly manner, we started dating ONLINE in sept or oct 2009, he proposed to me mids of oct, we had 2 wedding dates in mind ( either it was in nov during his first visit or in march if he would visit for a second time) we were having doubts about wedding date cuz he had a job offer so he said it would take him longer to come to visit me again so we decided to marry in nov, he came to visit me in nov 2009 and got married during his first visit, we applied for permanent residence in feb 2010, he got approved as sponsor in march 2010, application was transfered to my local visa office in april 2010, after we applied my husband came to visit me twice, june 2010 and dec 2010. Im 24 weeks into my pregnancy, me and my husband communicate thru phone calls( his phone bills DO NOT show my number as he uses a calling card, MY phone bills DO show his phone numbers, i got a contract since sept 2010 so phone bills proof are from that date til now) , facebook messages (the oldest one is from sept 2009), emails ( a few of them, we really dont use emails unless he wants to send me links or important info or pics), blackberry messenger but i do not have any msgs anymore so thats out of the picture, we do love each other and we didnt marry for immigration purposes.

I have an scheduled interview for june 14th. Im very aware that the beginning of my relationship is a reason for them to believe this is not a genuine relationship, but back in the time we DIDNT have in mind that getting married so soon would be a problem for immigration, to be honest if i could go back in time i would do exactly the same, I DONT REGRET MARRYING HIM WHEN I DID, as i said before, i didnt marry him for immigration purposes, so yeah, now that i have been reading more and more about immigration i know that our case doesnt look good at all and this is why they scheduled me for an interview.

Ok so my only concern at this moment is my child, i will probably be giving birth in my home country, which is fine, but i dont want my husband missing important events in our baby's life, hes already missing my pregnancy, the first ultrasounds, the baby's heart beat and all that, we do not have any problems to live here but im afraid my husband will have problems settling down here and adjust in this country as he doesnt speak the language and he is not used to such hot weather.

I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR YOUR OPINIONS ABOUT OUR CASE. I WANT AN HONEST OPINION FROM A 3RD PERSON, WHO IS OUTSIDE THIS RELATIONSHIP ( LIKE THE VISA OFFICER IS). THANKS

 

[coldgirl]

First of all, Im very sorry that you and your husband have to be apart during your pregnancy. It must be very hard. I think you are right about why they called for an interview. But I dont think you have anything to worry about, just take alot of evidence, like pictures when he came to visit and phone records, etc. Since your marriage is genuine, Im sure the officer will be able to tell. So dont stress too much!!

 

[lolitaboom]

First of all, Im very sorry that you and your husband have to be apart during your pregnancy. It must be very hard. I think you are right about why they called for an interview. But I dont think you have anything to worry about, just take alot of evidence, like pictures when he came to visit and phone records, etc. Since your marriage is genuine, Im sure the officer will be able to tell. So dont stress too much!!

thank you for your words, i hope everything works out for us

 

[canadianwoman]

Gather proof of your continued contact since the application was sent, and take it with you to the interview: the phone bills and proof of his visits, etc.
Make sure you know a lot about his life in Canada and his relatives and friends.
If there are any unusual aspects to your relationship that you haven't mentioned - such as a big age gap - be prepared for the visa officer to question you about this.
Good luck, though. Lots of people with online relationships get accepted.

 

[Heidyincnd]

Don't worry about your case much, as long as you have the copy of ultrasound check and DNA test. There is no reason for IO apart you and your husband. Good luck to you and be brave

Cheers

Hello everyone!
I'd like to post my story and have your opinions about my permanent residence application.
I met my husband online, we chatted and were friends for about two years, he was in another relationship at the time we met but we never talked anything serious just regular conversations as friends, a few hello's froom time to time ( WE DO NOT HAVE EMAILS FROM THIS TIME). In 2009 my husband and i started to talk in a more frecuent and friendly manner, we started dating ONLINE in sept or oct 2009, he proposed to me mids of oct, we had 2 wedding dates in mind ( either it was in nov during his first visit or in march if he would visit for a second time) we were having doubts about wedding date cuz he had a job offer so he said it would take him longer to come to visit me again so we decided to marry in nov, he came to visit me in nov 2009 and got married during his first visit, we applied for permanent residence in feb 2010, he got approved as sponsor in march 2010, application was transfered to my local visa office in april 2010, after we applied my husband came to visit me twice, june 2010 and dec 2010. Im 24 weeks into my pregnancy, me and my husband communicate thru phone calls( his phone bills DO NOT show my number as he uses a calling card, MY phone bills DO show his phone numbers, i got a contract since sept 2010 so phone bills proof are from that date til now) , facebook messages (the oldest one is from sept 2009), emails ( a few of them, we really dont use emails unless he wants to send me links or important info or pics), blackberry messenger but i do not have any msgs anymore so thats out of the picture, we do love each other and we didnt marry for immigration purposes.

I have an scheduled interview for june 14th. Im very aware that the beginning of my relationship is a reason for them to believe this is not a genuine relationship, but back in the time we DIDNT have in mind that getting married so soon would be a problem for immigration, to be honest if i could go back in time i would do exactly the same, I DONT REGRET MARRYING HIM WHEN I DID, as i said before, i didnt marry him for immigration purposes, so yeah, now that i have been reading more and more about immigration i know that our case doesnt look good at all and this is why they scheduled me for an interview.

Ok so my only concern at this moment is my child, i will probably be giving birth in my home country, which is fine, but i dont want my husband missing important events in our baby's life, hes already missing my pregnancy, the first ultrasounds, the baby's heart beat and all that, we do not have any problems to live here but im afraid my husband will have problems settling down here and adjust in this country as he doesnt speak the language and he is not used to such hot weather.

I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR YOUR OPINIONS ABOUT OUR CASE. I WANT AN HONEST OPINION FROM A 3RD PERSON, WHO IS OUTSIDE THIS RELATIONSHIP ( LIKE THE VISA OFFICER IS). THANKS

 

[ditta]

I disagree with the previous comment, a child on the way is not a proof of a genuine relationship nor a guarantee that the interview will be positive. Take Canadianwoman`s advice, gather as much evidence as you can of continuous contact, you can get notarized testimonies of relatives stating they know about the relationship or they encountered your husband or you. Do not panic, but try to be prepared for any kind of question. You may as well want your husband to be able to get in touch with throughout the interview by phone. Best of luck!

 

[Heidyincnd]

Well, of course that is not the only subjective sensation but one of the strong proofs for her to be confident in the interview. All the people in this forum must be so much careful preparing their applications that why you are all here.

I disagree with the previous comment, a child on the way is not a proof of a genuine relationship nor a guarantee that the interview will be positive. Take Canadianwoman`s advice, gather as much evidence as you can of continuous contact, you can get notarized testimonies of relatives stating they know about the relationship or they encountered your husband or you. Do not panic, but try to be prepared for any kind of question. You may as well want your husband to be able to get in touch with throughout the interview by phone. Best of luck!

 

[lolitaboom]

thank you all for your responses, i appreciate it.

I have about 20-25 facebook messages, screen shots.
9 phone bills, all from my phone company showing his phone numbers, his phone bills doesnt show mine as he uses calling cards (but im still including his phone bills)
about 10-15 emails from each other.
75 pics of his visits plus the professional photographs of our wedding.
about 20-25 western union receipts.
scan pics of his passport and pages showing the stamps of entry to my country.
he'll send me the tax form showing he included me as his wife.
and a letter from his mother stating she has knowledge of our relationship. ( i dont know her in person and she wasnt in our wedding cuz shes old and sick, cant travel)
receipts from restaurants and historical places we visited during his visits.

anything else i should include?? should i print more facebook messages?