well boulderguy i m sorry but i wasnt taking or supporting your side. If you really ask me, i would be more inclined towards LCS and support her. But I dont want us to fight here. we all miss our love ones as terribly as u would have missed ur girl friend, but it didnt lead us to cheat the system or lie. there is a thing called self respect which is more important in my opinion. my wife wouldnt be proud of me if i cheat and abuse the system just to be with her. She misses me alot and so do i but we r still going through the legitimate way. I could have fooled the system if i wanted too. I have multiple US visa for five years too and I can go to US anytime I want. But why should I be forced to do something which I dont want? and why should i choose a way to go somewhere where I have to by illegal means? Thats not the way. You are suffering from this illegal life even though you are with your girl friend right? Why? whats the use of going through that illegal means when in the end you still got frustrated. You only contributed towards making immigration more tougher for everyone of us. I do understand your feelings when you said you are afraid to miss your girl friend. but please try to understand others' feelings too. I wish you so much well so that you can get out of ur frustrating illegal life and live happily with your girl friend. I think you owe an apology to LCS for calling her names. She is not wrong. She is only frustrated. You are wrong and frustrated as well. Please try to see the difference and be friends with everyone. You will feel less frustrated. Take care