CutiePie92, Thanks!CutiePie92 said:alliekay333, seems like both of you have a healthy way of thinking and your expectations of each other are fine. the fact that you have the same religion as him is great, even if there are going to be cultural differences, religion is common. as others have said, don't marry on the first visit, get to know him first. from your posts, i don't see too much of a risk of marriage fraud (from his part). good luck!