im so lucky ircc denied my wife...guys, divorce your wives asap, cancel their sponsorship...or else some time down the road its high probable she will divorce you anyways...1 week later, 1 year later, 10 years later, or even 15 years later. Just sayin.
As the very fortunate recipient of sponsored PR, someone most happy to have escaped my home country, I had to take a deep breath, swallow hard, and suppress the urge to discharge a stream of epithets.
Many marriages, some of the best, are entered into at risk. Life is tricky. Life in concert with another, trickier. Damn worth it when it works out, and that is often true even if it does not work out for long let alone not forever. Having been in a previous marriage in which circumstances took my partner from me, from this world, all too soon, I have no doubt that even a brief marriage, even one leading to much sorrow, can be an incredible gift. As much as I love and am devoted to my current spouse, my hero for having given me the means to live in this great country, I also know that my previous marriage was well, well worth it despite how little time we ended up having together.
Our marriage is two years old. I sponsored her for PR. When she arrived, she left me after one week and moved to different province. Now she is living with a guy and her family knows about this as they talked to us but in neighbourhood they are denying this. If the marriage gets annulled will i be off hook for 3 year support and she will be deported back?
IMO your situation sounds like straight up FRAUD against Canadian Immigration.
IMO it sounds like she had a plan to use you to get to Canada.
Fraud, that's another story. Often a complicated story. Sure, sometimes it is just plain outright fraud, outright exploitation of someone in Canada. Best defense to that, in the marriage for immigration fraud context, is individual diligence. Know who you marry. Don't rely on total stranger bureaucrats to figure out from a limited amount of information on paper (or digital) more than what you can from being in a relationship of sufficient intimacy that you will honestly represent the marriage is genuine.
Can be hard to show there was fraud when both parties to a marriage have so firmly advocated it was genuine. Fact that one bolts so soon can raise questions, invite investigation, but of course what matters less is what the person did after coming to Canada compared to how they were scheming and making misrepresentations before. There can be many, many reasons why someone suddenly bolts a marriage they had otherwise entered into genuinely.
And, to be clear, no matter how much one wrongs the other in leaving the relationship, that does not necessarily mean it was entered into fraudulently.
On the other side of courtroom sits the "
aggrieved," but is the aggrieved's version now more honest that their claims to the government the marriage was genuine before they became aggrieved? Or is the hurt fueling accusations in pursuit of vengeance? Once again, it will be up to total stranger bureaucrats to sort it out.
Any claim to know for sure it was fraud based on a couple cryptic posts is of course suspect, at best. But we live in an age of little restraint in casting aspersions. Throw stones, and all too often don't bother to even ask questions later.
I don't know. When relationships fail, that's a hard scene.
And fraud is not to be condoned. Certainly not encouraged.
What I do know, in contrast, is that investing in relationships with others, and taking some risks in doing that, that's the best life has to offer.
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@jora1995 -- my condolences. I do not know what happened. Best I can offer is you seek peace. Getting IRCC to act in these cases can be frustrating and actually elevate the stress and pain. If this is really about lies made before coming to Canada, then as others have said, report the
facts, focused on the
facts, and do this honestly, straight-forwardly, and then leave it in the government's hands.