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My wife cheated on me. I need to get divorce, please help

jadeja

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I am from India and am a canada pr and married last year before coming to canada. My wife lied to me about her date of birth, about her documents, her education and surgery. She didn't disclose anything at the time of marriage nor anyone told us. She showed me fake documents at the time of marriage. After marriage when I checked her bag there were other educational documents and shows that she failed in her senior secondary school examination and she is not a graduate. I tried to forgive her for everything she did to me as I wanted to keep my relation and not to end it in divorce. But now the conditions are turning ugly. As soon as I landed in Canada, she is forcing me to get her pr visa immediately, which u all know is not possible as there is a processing time for it. She is very loud these days and threat me to spoil my life. She is troubling my mom, dad and sister at home and ask them to force me too. She told me "you fool I married to you for PR visa, I will spoil your life" over phone. I was shocked to hear.

I have decided not to remain with her but as I am new in canada, I don't the rights of a permanent residents and where to go to explain my story. I have a telephonic proof of her accepting that she cheated me by hiding surgery and producing false documents. I have nothing else to proof it. I didn't take dowry, instead I spent on my wedding from her side also. She is very clever and is in contact with immigration agents who are helping her. I am not sure if she comes here what she do and behave.

Please help me, I am new in canada. Please guide me for the divorce proceedings. I don't want to die each and every day by hearing non sense from her. Please I beg in fornt of you . Kindly guide me.
 

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Oh my god. Which city do you live in?
 

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Where is your wife ? Is she an Indian? Or Canadian ? Did she sponsor you to Canada ? I'd she's still in India waiting to be sponsored by you ? how did you get pr ? I think all you have to do is withdraw the application , some clarification will help .
 

jadeja

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Obronibini said:
Where is your wife ? Is she an Indian? Or Canadian ? Did she sponsor you to Canada ? I'd she's still in India waiting to be sponsored by you ? how did you get pr ? I think all you have to do is withdraw the application , some clarification will help .
She is Indian and is in India now. She knew that I am a canada Pr before marriage and she deliberatley married me. No I have not yet sponsored her because I landed 20 days back. I have not started with her file but got all documents ready to file her application from India. I didn't know she will poison my life like this
 

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jadeja said:
She is Indian and is in India now. She knew that I am a canada Pr before marriage and she deliberatley married me.
you haven't sponsored her yet have you ?
 

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jadeja said:
She is Indian and is in India now. She knew that I am a canada Pr before marriage and she deliberatley married me.
As far as I know, if the PR application is in process, you can cancel / withdraw the PR application. Once that is done, your next step is to start the divorce proceedings. If I am not mistaken, I think you need to be legally separated for 1 year before you are granted a divorce. Only senior members can provide the proper steps of divorce proceedings.
 

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jadeja said:
No I haven't sponsored her yet
Since you haven't sponsored her, then you have nothing to do but start the divorce.
 

jadeja

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screech339 said:
As far as I know, if the PR application is in process, you can cancel / withdraw the PR application. Once that is done, your next step is to start the divorce proceedings. If I am not mistaken, I think you need to be legally separated for 1 year before you are granted a divorce. Only senior members can provide the proper steps of divorce proceedings.
I have not sponsored her yet. In that one year she may either turn me mentally ill or my parents
 

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jadeja said:
No I haven't sponsored her yet
all her treats are empty then , she can remain in India whiles you take time to divorce her if you want to . Since you haven't sponsored her . If you have application on going you can withdraw it . I don't know about how divorce works in India or Canada so wait for experienced members to answer that . Meanwhile how is immigration helping her if you haven't sponsored her yet ? Plz clarify
 

jadeja

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Obronibini said:
all her treats are empty then , she can remain in India whiles you take time to divorce her if you want to . Since you haven't sponsored her . If you have application on going you can withdraw it . I don't know about how divorce works in India or Canada so wsit for experienced members to answer that . Meanwhile how is immigration helping her if you haven't sponsored her yet ? Plz clarify
She is taking advice from agents and she told me that don't ever think of giving me divorce once I will be in Canada as you will have to pay me for three years. This made me realise that there is someone who is guiding her.
 

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jadeja said:
I have not sponsored her yet. In that one year she may either turn me mentally ill or my parents
You could always apply for a supervisa for your parents so they can come stay with you for a while. At least you will have to comfort in knowing your parents are not being threated by your soon to be ex-wife.
 

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jadeja said:
She is taking advice from agents and she told me that don't ever think of giving me divorce once I will be in Canada as you will have to pay me for three years. This made me realise that there is someone who is guiding her.
Her threats still remain empty as she has not even gotten PR and PR papers are not even started or submitted. The 3 year financial commitment only applied after she officially lands as PR, not when you got married. Got to say that her threats is only making it worst for her, not you. If her plans was to get Canadian PR, it is not working out for her.
 

Obronibini

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jadeja said:
She is taking advice from agents and she told me that don't ever think of giving me divorce once I will be in Canada as you will have to pay me for three years. This made me realise that there is someone who is guiding her.
you should be greatful and thank God for her ignorance! She got it all wrong , I don't think she can come to Canada without your approval or sponsorship. If you haven't signed any under taking how are you going to be on the hook for three years ? I doubt if that's posible . If you haven't sponsored her yet just call her bluf . It not posible . She may get a visitors visa to Canada but that has nothing to do with you ! Don't stress yourself thinking about that