Here is our story and I am curious if anyone else has had a similar situation and how the process went for them.
We met in Canada almost two years ago now, he is mexican and I am canadian, we fell in love and moved in together, also have a daughter that has also fallen in love with him as a step-dad. He had been living illegally in Canada at the time, so needless to say we were always in fear of that phone call that he had been picked up. Last August they arrested him at our home and deported him almost emediately. We did very well at the hearing but they had already purchsed a plane ticket so we got him out on bail and spent our last few hours together as a family, a very tramatic experience for all of us.
We have since retained an immigration lawyer that seems to think we have a very good chance at having him come back with us, we have collected as much proof as possible. We didnt have anything joint as he was illegal, so that is a bit of an issue, he wasnt even on the rental agreement. However we have letters from neighbors confirming his residence, letters from both sides of our families, pictures, phone records, skype records and travel records (me traveling to visit him in mexico).
We have gotten everything together, police certificate, medical, all his identification for both him and his daughters, all my required info as a sponsor ect and are just about to submit it all for processing via our lawyer.
We are hoping that he will be back with us by December, but of course the immigration wheels move slowly, so who really knows. What is everyone elses experiences, my biggest worry is his illegal status and being deported. he had a one year ban which will expire in August. I guess the other thing to note is I am still married to my ex husband (Seperated 4 years) and am in the process of divorce (hopefully to be finalized soon) has anyone else been in this situation ?
We have applied common law, but wonder if once my divorce is finanlized if getting officially married will help our chances of having him come back with us or if it is really necissary....
Love this forum and reading all the progress everyone has gone through, Good luck to everyone else, this isnt easy!