Glad to see you have been correcting your statements with every new post... based on my posts, of course.
While your arguments on here have been changing/evolving with each new post, mine have remained the same throughout. Your first posts were completely off the mark. They were factually/ legally/ religiously incorrect.
Here's what your first post stated:
1. I do not know about any law in Malaysia preventing marriage of people of different religion.
2. From the point of Christianity, there is no such requirement either.
1. This is simply because lack of the paperwork from back then. So what is done instead? I would assume some kind of solemn declaration that is confirmed. The only problem there are "good" neighbours that will witness against you saying something like his grandfather told that his grandfather told him that his grandfather knew that they were not Christians / Jewish back then. Will it be a lie? Most likely yes, but not that anybody can prove the opposite. So in order to prevent such good old neighbours to mess into your affairs, you would have to end up either have lot of influence or to be able to bribe them.
Try tracing a family tree/ ancestry chart/ arbre généalogique to the time before Prophet Muhammad. That is the requirement for 'Kitabiyah'. And, this proof must be legally valid.... not a concoction of vivid imagination.... not a false admission.
We're talking about proofs going back to 6-7th century AD here i.e. the years of Prophet Muhammad.
Again, as the OP is a new Christian, her immediate previous generations are obviously Muslims. So, this line of 'Kitabiyah' proofing is a complete non-starter.
2. This is the only reason why it would not work, but again it depends where is she from. If from Malaysia, then of course it is way too easy to discover her origins. If from somewhere where nobody has any connection with and where she has at least one decent male relative that is Christian as well, then she could still try to play the game. But yes this one would be the real stopper in the case stated above.
Do you really think the OP can trace her origins if she is from Malaysia? Let's not fool our intellectual sensibilities on this one!
It is incredulous if someone believes it is possible to trace the family ancestry back to pre-Prophet Muhammad times..... before 6-7th century.... especially in a country like Malaysia which has seen a good amount of immigration/assimilation of tribal cultures, diversities, etc through the centuries.
You wrote in your previous post:
If from Malaysia, then of course it is way too easy to discover her origins.
Would be interested in knowing: Where in Malaysia do
you recommend the OP can find this "easy" way of discovering her origins?
3. And no, you are not correct. Technically there is that one exception there in the law. And would you seek a bit online you would find at least 1 case where such marriage was approved. So with that, you cannot stay that something like that it is impossible for a muslim to marry a non-muslim. What is impossible is for a muslim woman to marry a non-muslim man in Malaysia.
Personally, do you know a non-Muslim who tried marrying a Muslim in Malaysia? Are you aware of the marriage statutes, the Family Law, the religious and cultural practices in Malaysia?
4. Here you are already assuming a specific type of Christianity. But even if you speak about Roman Catholics (there are Greek Catholics as well), then it is possible (yes full in Church with everything) as long as the permission is granted. And such permission does not have some conditions of specific religion or if it is only valid for a man or for a woman. So no your statement again is technically incorrect.
I did not assume that the OP is a Roman Catholic. Purely for this discussion, I considered Roman Catholicism and not other Christian sects.
I encourage you to read my previous posts.
Your recent post on Christian marriage ceremony between a Catholic and a non-Catholic is just a rehash of my statements. But, like I said, I'm glad to see your posts are evolving to what I have been saying.
Right from my first post, I distinctly wrote that special permission/written dispensation is required for a full church marriage ceremony between a Catholic and a non-Catholic.
Just so you know:
Even in Greek Catholicism, an inter-religious/ interfaith marriage is not possible without written dispensation