nqstv247 said:
Hello sa lahat! Newbie lang ako dito sa forum at marami na ding information na nababasa.
Gusto ko din sana humingi ng advice sa mga seniors sa forum at sa iba pang pwedeng makapag-share ng experience nila.
PR sa Canada ang partner ko for a year now and gusto sana namin mag-apply through conjugal application. Medyo naguguluhan lang kami sa case namin. Best friends kami since early college and even lived together (shared an apartment) for 3 years before due to proximity sa work areas namin. We didn't realize that we were feeling something towards each other na pala as more than best friends. We didn't entertain the thought as we didn't want to ruin our friendship, so we contained our feelings to ourselves. Before my partner (now) left for Canada, that was the time we realized we can't live without each other and took our friendship to the next level. We are official for more than a year now.
My questions are:
1. Can we apply through conjugal application based sa history ng relationship namin?
2. What do we need to present as evidences na we are a legit couple and what are the chances of us getting approved under this circumstance?
3. I'm just thinking about yung time na nag-live in kami before when we were still best friends and hindi pa talaga official yung relationship namin, ma-consider ba yun as common-law relationship? Parang medyo complicated yung case namin.
I hope may makapag-advice sakin on what to do kasi we really want to be together na kaya gusto na namin mag-apply soon. Thanks sa lahat ng makakasagot.
hi, I dont think that conjugal sponsorship is the best alternative for you. Of course, you wont be compelled to get married, but what prevented you from marrying your partner? Is it just a call or an option not to get married yet? Does staying unmarried and file for conjugal sponsorship is for you a stronger calling than marrying your partner? If yes, the VO may ask why?
Second, there was no significant event in the 3-year span of time that you were sharing the apartment with your partner that can prove a conjugal existence between the two of you. It is just like a normal housemate-boardmate thing unless you can present proofs that can prove otherwise.
Third, when before your boyfriend left for Canada, you found out that you had feelings for each other and both of you took it to the next level. What was that feeling? A desire to share a life together or just a feeling of being in love with each other? If I were the VO, I would think that you just started dating and until this time, you only have a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
This is just my humble and honest assessment of your case. I hope this helps. Hopefully someone can give some more advice.
So, in my opinion, if it is too much pain missing your partner who is far away, why cant he plan to marry you in the Philippines?
