Not only is this bad advice, it won't fool CIC. They will still reject a couple with a child if they feel the relationship isn't genuine. If they think the couple had a baby just to "prove" the relationship is real, then it's a fast rejection. Have kids when you want to/when you're ready. Having them for any other reason isn't a good idea.marcjd said:
+1 to that. Also, I'm married. Been married for 4 years. Doesn't mean we want kids. EVER! It's still a choice for each and every couple to make as they see fit.amikety said:
OMG! I am so very sorrynoureddine said:we lost our appeal ,we dont know what we have to do now
:'( to read this noureddine ((((((((((hugs))))))))
we submitted it last feb and got SA on March 5... I know short term relationship could be a big question for genuine relationship. But i believe it's gonna be ok...My husband had been divorce for 7 years before meeting me and been alone for 10 years....hope CIC considers my husband's dream to be with someone growing old....ilovekj said:
..(dramatic isnt it?..lol)....
lol "fast" and "CIC" never go together. If you say "hi" to a CIC office on the street they stand there like a statue for 3 months before saying "hi" back.amikety said:
Hi,,,i really dont see it's because of the age difference, 7 or 8 years is nothing,,,trust me i have seen people having over than 17 years difference and they got approved,,,i think cic look at other things,,,freeislam000 said:
My husbands entire interview was based around our "age difference" and whether or not that was "custom" in egypt to marry an older woman.. and the other subject he hovered over was religion... muslim man to catholic-turned muslim woman... it was done in just under 10 minutes... sure we have other red flags... but we didnt rush into a marriage... we took our time... and I have been to egypt 3 times in 3 years... twice with my youngest son....its a sick game that cuts deeplygladiateur19 said:
im saying the same,there must be something worng,,,cuz the chances to win an appeal are almost 99%,,,so to get denied there must be some solid reasons,,,noureddine,please take your time and clear your mind and get your wife to live with you for a while if she can do that,,,because i know it's not always that easy,people keep saying just ask your wife to come and leave with you,but they know nothing about her conditions,,,i know you will get to be with her at the end,if your love is real and pureFencesitter said:
i was on cairo visa office topic freeislam,i have seen and read your posts before,but i didn't know you had kids from the previous marriage,,,but saying that your man has met your youngest son twice,this is a good proof,,,but i do think the guy who made the interview has already decided to give a refusal even before your husband got into the interview room...that's the same thing noureddine told me before,that the agent seemed like she has already taken her decision,because whatever he was trying to say and answer her questions,she kept saying im not satisfied,or that's not enough,,,etc etc etc,,,,freeislam000 said:
