ANADA,
NO DISRESPECT, if you choose to do this, the first thing you need to do is stop thinking with your pumpum!
Calm yourself down, and find out the reason that you want him to ever be in Canada to begin with. Is it because of the life of your kids? Is it for the benefits Canada will give? You need to find out that reason before you do something that could affect it.
Second, if there is no reason, then why think of a temporary move? Just sell it all and go!
Lastly, you are gettin yourself worked up. I have to believe that when you married this man, you were confident of a few things...
1. that you love him and he is the only one for you
2. that he loves you and you are the only one for him
3. that moving him to Canada wouldn't happen over night
4. that you both would do anything for each other, including waiting to be together forever.
you really need to refocus. It is def ok to have bad feeling days and to feel over anxious. Lawd knows we have all had them. And this forum is a great place to vent. But, you can't self destruct over this all day, every day! You are responsible for acting on your feelings and at some point you have to pick yourself up and dust yourself off and move on from the anxiety... maybe a good first step would be to talk to a doctor about anti-anxiety exercises and/or medication. If the anxiety is blocking your normal thought process then this may help to clearing your head and then you can go on stronger. It is just a thought and I am not meaning to disrespect you or insult you in any way. It is just my feeling that the level of your anxiety could affect your job/marriage/kids/life in a negative way that may be irreversible, and, well, that would be very sad my dear. Please take my words as a sign of caring and not judgement.
