honestly personally i have never been stressed to this extent, i was so used staying with my wife, a lot of memories keep coming though now i got used but the first time she disappeared i spent 4 months in wired situation, i wud qurrel with everyone, always unhappy and now that they requested for my passport and its taking months to return i feel terrible, this is a very painful waiting really, i just feel sorry for guys with weak hearts am sure very many couples brake up. actually me i dint know that i wud ever b in such a situation first of all my wife was born in canada and raised in a different country and its not a visa free country, so we met at school and dint knw tht at some point it cud end up like this, i swear i shed tears wen she was living for canada, i cudnt believe, i mis her so much. all i do is to put faith in God and believe everything works out for a better future. Lets have hope, we will make it though the struggle will continue.